For me this was a central issue. We are conditioned to value the judgement of therapists above our own and that of everyone else, when it comes to life issues. But there is no basis for this. It's a sort of constructed reality, that puts therapists on a fake pedestal of omniscience. You CAN kick it out from under them. It's just a game. Once I stopped buying into the game, I was free. Free at last! Praise the lord!