Hello Iqu: Thanks for sharing your concern. I don't know as there is a lot I can suggest here. Perhaps other members will have some suggestions they can share. It appears you are in Pakistan? So I presume there are cultural pressures on you I would be unfamiliar with. From my perspective, the situation you describe is primarily a matter of establishing & enforcing boundaries. Here are links to some articles, from the PsychCentral archives, on the subject of boundaries:

https://psychcentral.com/lib/what-ar...do-i-get-some/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/the-imp...al-boundaries/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/10-way-...er-boundaries/

Family therapist, Kati Morton has videos on her YouTube channel on the subjects of how to deal with toxic people & personal boundaries. Here are links to three of them:







I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit. May I suggest you introduce yourself over on PC's New Member Introductions forum? Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/new-...introductions/

There's a lot of support that can be available here on PC. The more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are the chat rooms where you'll be able to interact with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) So please keep posting!