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Even if it is a teenage boy who is pushing the girl and making her "do it" is that not control??? He's thinking of no one but himself...right? He is controlling the situation to his wants.

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Well, now - I can also see that as him being horny since he is a teenage boy ready to go at a movements notice, therefore, he is thinking with his little head - which leaves him being selfish not controlling.

While I do believe most of rapes are done out of controlling issue (one way or the other) I also believe after talking this over with my T, that some sexual abuse issues are done out of wanting nothing more than mere sexual pleasure with out the consideration or respect of the person you are forcibly taking it from.