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Originally Posted by TheSadGirl
You are not responsible for your wife's action. I'm sorry your daughter says hurtful things, but I didn't understand things about my parents until I was in my 30's. Being on disability is not your fault and definitely not a measure of your worth.
I am sorry you are hurting. You need find a way to give yourself a break. Hospital maybe?
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If I weren't so emotionally stunned by my childhood, I'd have not been so broken as a father. I'm in my 40's. I didn't even think about it being emotional neglect until this year when my therapist started reading the ACA laundry list and most of them clicked, except for the use of alcohol. I spent a lot of time with religion thrown at me, regardless of my beliefs and disbeliefs, and threatened all to hell, both literally and figuratively, for anything I did that was not only wrong in their god's eyes, but also in their eyes. I sum up most religions like the following:
"Perfunctory idols, rewriting their Bibles. Magic markers running out of their ink" -- Beck