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Old Dec 23, 2017, 11:42 AM
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Always in This Twilight
 
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With marriage counselor, yes--2:15 on Mondays, and he remembers that (but we have to reschedule at times due to conflicts and holidays). With T, no standing appointment (he doesn't do them), but he knows that Wednesday is our usual day (he's commented on it), and I've only been seeing him 3 months. I don't always see him that day, though, and it's at varying times, which is fine because I work from home--plus he usually has multiple options for me. Ex-T did not have standing appointments, and she usually only had one (sometimes two) options available for me, which was kind of frustrating, because I felt I had to work around her schedule. And once, she forgot to leave a slot open for me (after I'd been seeing her a few years) and was fully booked, which really hurt...I sometimes scheduled 2 weeks in advance when my schedule was more restricted (like if D was off from school one day).