I have heard lots of women complain about their bras, they say that 70% of women are wearing the wrong bras so no wonder they are complaining lol I recently had male breast augmentation surgery (earlier this year) So I now need to wear bras. After initially wearing the surgical bra for 6 weeks, afterwards went a got fitted, it took awhile but eventually I was able to find bras that were comfortable or at least I was able to wear for the day. I would recommend that starting this year go out and get fitted again try different brands and styles, I m sure you will find one that will feel much more comfortable than what you are currently wearing.