Actually, one of the things I wanted SO BADLY when it came to the challenge I had faced with my husband was to have a camera attached to my own head so I could play back exactly what I have been describing. Even to him because he will say something and I will repeat it with how I feel about his statement and he consistently replies "I did not say that". How can you interact when the other person says something and won't at least admit he said it? My older sister practices this too. It's extremely unhealthy for someone to deal with.