Hi Dbeianalep,
The 5 post rule is for you to be able to enter chat. It has nothing to do with your use of the forums or feedback.
Here is the link to your first post:
https://forums.psychcentral.com/part...roduction.html
It looks like you posted it in the Partners and Caregivers Support sub forum, and I am not sure how active that forum is. You may want to try to introduce yourself in the New Member Introductions subforum as well.
Also, considering your first post was much about your relationship with your wife, an appropriate place to seek support for whatever issues you are facing may be the Relationships and Communications subforum. It gets a lot of traffic and threads there typically get at least a few responses.
I'm sorry to hear of your wife's illness, and I hope you find the support you are looking for here.
Best,
Seesaw