T, that was so nice for you to want to help me so much! I really wanted your help and was thrilled that you gave it to me, but I'm so hoping that it doesn't backfire! I'm feeling so conflicted right now. I'm not sure if I should mention it to you as you might get mad. It's such a tough spot to be in. I really that if I bring it up that you're not mad or defensive! And I so don't want this to all backfire!