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Originally Posted by FallDuskTrain
Being a loyal and a good hearted person sometimes means more than being driven and goal oriented. I hope you are considering that when you think of your husband.
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Yes, my husband is indeed loyal and good hearted person, which I am thankful about...But! He isn't that loyal to me after all. If he was, he would have finished already university and got a decent job, which he didn't. I feel like it's stabbing to my back. I already have so low requirements on him, just these two accomplishments, I don't ask from him to get filthy rich or make big career or
something like that. Just to make our life enough stable and predictable.And he has failed in this front. I feel like our life is on my shoulders and I have to drag him along.
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Yes, that is true you are not responsible for your husband’s depression but it would kind to consider the well being of the father of your child.
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I am actually considering of introducing him to new women, arranging dates etc., in case of our divorce. Of course, it's not that simple, he loves me and it would hurt him anyway. But I do wish to help him.