Thank you Miswimmy1,
i've read and re-read your post many times. this is not the first time i feel my T is invalidating but its the first time it hurt and angered me.

I may have exaggerated some things and minimized or omitted others, but im NOT a FAKER!

anyway, now it feels like my T has completed the path and i have nothing more to say or tell her. i dont want to start a war with her.

i'll probably show up next time and will tell her im done and want to quit. and probably this way is even better for her.