Some of yo may know this thread http://forums.psychcentral.com/showf...t=8#Post726800

well, after about 2 years it is no more. As it turns out I feel like I was become manipulative and controlling and nothing she did was good enough. Also, I frankly did not feel as into it as she did and i dont think I am ready to talk about marriage and kids and moving in...etc. So, rather than make it worse for both of us years from now, it is over for good now.

As far as how I feel, I know I dont want to go back but man is it cold to be alone. I have to be independent now, which I value highly, and i was so dependent before. What is the best way to move on and be ok?