while takig a quick break from our christmas festivities I thought I would come in and read a bit while regrounding...I read what you put inside the trigger icon... I got such a present this year. there is nothing wrong with getting such toys. they can be quite helpful in relationships or self enjoyment. you can find more about gifts like this in the sexual forums here https://forums.psychcentral.com/sexual-gender-issues/

that said the orignal poster did not receive such a sexual toy the original posters toy was a light up santa. I dont see any reason to throw it away if they like the santa without the lights, just dont push the button that makes the santa light up and sparkle. I have done that many times with gifts that I enjoy but do not like the light up feature. I have also done whats now called "regifting" where a gift I have received from someone, would fit another friend better and have re wrapped the gift and gave it to another friend. my friends and I have a "regifting" circle where we see how many time the same gift can be regifted in one christmas season and who ultimately ends up with the gift. we never know whether the item is a regift until after christmas and we compare notes on who regifted what lol one christmas we all actually regifted the same christmas gift around the circle lol