I'm sorry.... I wish I had comforting words for you. That is not right or fair, so I understand your feelings completely. It's often all about my sister, too. I have learned to deal with it and accept it, but sometimes it's hard. I have taken a back burner role in our family, but I try not to let it ruin my own happiness. But I understand how you may feel.

Is there a way you can step back from doing so much work and let others take more of a fair share?