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Old Dec 25, 2017, 03:21 PM
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Hi Shattered Sanity,

I just wanted to say I empathize with you so much. I don't have DID, but I do have little parts relating to trauma / PTSD. I want a mommy so bad sometimes too. I have learned to provide some of those things for myself, though, it is really frustrating sometimes when no one can be my mommy.

For me, when I feel little and need comfort, nurture, protection and safety; I will put on a diaper, grab my three cute, snuggly teddy bears, build a blankey fort, wrap up in super soft, cozy blankies and listen to ASMR bedtime stories and color. It is the closest thing I have to what I want so badly. I call it my little-space.

I hope these suggestions help. It is a wonderful world to explore. Hopefully with time and practice, you can learn to offer yourself these things whenever your little parts show themselves.

Thanks,
HD7970ghz
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