Thank you, everyone who understands that victim blaming isn't the same as lying or crying wolf.

I'm staggered at some of the responses though - about how to treat 'fake' victims, as if we are judge, jury & executioner in these matters.

This sub-forum has not felt like a safe space for survivors of abuse for a while now, so I'll just stick with the other places and give myself some peace.

Bye for now.