My T definitely reprimands things I say that he doesnt like- or finds less evolved or compassionate etc. I appreciate it- he will raise an eye brow or shake his head no etc. He doesnt agree all the time or empathize all the time or even most of the time- only for vulnerability or real sharing. He is a beautiful fit for me, but probably not for everyone. He is a bit harsh, lol, at times, but gentle when warranted.