If you get extra support or have the right of disability depends on where you live. Where I live (Europe) I have the right to some free services. Also when I applied for disability they actually didn't demand much more than the diagnosis itself which was a bit absurd. Now it is much harder to get here and you have to have quite severe problems to get it. I had some weird window of opportunity there. I'm glad because a friend without aspergers with different types of disabling anxieties had to go through 2.5 years of work training and other stuff before they actually allowed here to go on disability. Such torture!