Aren't we constantly reminded here that "therapists are only human"? Nobody is a saint least of all therapists. To be human is to judge. So yes of course therapists judge their clients. I don't have a problem with that. Like other posters, I don't mind them judging me. It would be humanly impossible not to judge. As long as they keep their thoughts to themselves, I'm fine with it. The same way I don't tell my friends "just get over it" even if they are complaining about the same problem over and over. I try to be supportive, that doesn't mean I'm no thinking "god this is so annoying".