I don't know any good online tests. The Baron-Cohen test is very male aspie oriented. He seems to think one cannot have aspergers if one is interested in movies, books and hates numbers.

But I do think if you read stuff about aspergers and you feel it fits, that is a good indicator.

A real test can usually see past male and female. My test was very extensive and took two full days (whew!) and I feel good about it being done that way. Every time in the past when I got diagnosed with something it was because my doc "felt" I had that. Not so accurate.

I can relate a lot to the aspergirl mindset. People who are raised as girls have much more social demands on them, you just HAVE to use so much brainpower to understand the social stuff, it is not allowed to be different the way it is for a boy.