Ooh. Yeah. No wonder that is so triggering for you.
His relationships with other client don't take away anything at all from yours. When you are there in that room with him he is there for you. None of those other clients get more than you or better than you. He shares catch phrases because they are a part of who he is. Your relationship with him is unique and genuine.
FOO issues and holidays suck. Kashi will be there for you when you get back.