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Old Dec 27, 2017, 07:43 AM
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But the point is that even that by now I about understand what happened, I also feel very, very betrayed and I still don't know how to heal from that.
Haven't you answered your own question?

"By now I realize that she really needed this ego boost of being needed..."

She was the one in need, and one feeling betrayed...

Once you realize that, I think you can start to heal, yes? With insight, you can not follow the same path...
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