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Originally Posted by Vaporeon
It sounds like controlling behavior to me. She has a right to prefer a certain style or length, but it's ultimately your body and for her to refuse intimacy or even affection is very controlling. It's a good thing that you're no longer engaged to her. You're better off with someone who appreciates you.
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Thank you for your help there.
The silly thing is that I actually used to do as she said and let her decide when my hair was cut and into what style. I now recognise that I was validating her behaviour and that she was controlling.
Being in love, I stupidly didn't see her behaviour as controlling at the time............hindsight is a wonderful thing.