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Old Dec 27, 2017, 11:20 AM
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Originally Posted by SalingerEsme View Post
I cant imagine my T contacting me of his own volition, just to check in or check on me. It would be so nice. I think it must be part of his "frame" that he never does that. It makes me feel like just his job, when normally I do feel like we are working together meaningfully , though in different capacities.
My T and I have outside contact, but I always initiate it. I'm not sure if it would feel okay to have her randomly check in because then I would want her to be able to accurately read my mind at all times as to whether I wanted her to make contact (or not). But I'm glad it works for other people.