I’ve been seeing current T for about 5 months. I had a really bad experience in getting attached and overly dependent on ex-T, so up until about a few weeks ago, I kept current T at a distance and didn’t tell her any emotional stuff. Now we started this thing where I write to her and I really opened up and it makes me feel cared for and I can feel those feelings of attachment starting to come up again. I’m scared. I don’t like these feelings, they make me uncomfortable. I fear she will abandon me. She knows all about my issues with ex-T and the attachment and whatnot...so I’m wondering if I should tell current T about these feelings? I would feel so embarrassed and ashamed doing so and I really don’t want to, but I feel like it might help her help me if she knows about it...Gah, I hate this situation, I wish I wasn’t so clingy...