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Originally Posted by Quarter life
Unless someone is a 'carer' of a child or person with diminished responsibility ...Eg: Impulse control.... Then it is not another adults responsibility to keep an adult in check imo. The OP made no reference to disability or diminished capacity in her/his husband. We all had parents at one stage...we don't need parenting from our spouse imo.
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No it’s not her responsibility. But your post sounded to me as you are saying that impulse control should be easily accomplished. Maybe that’s not what you meant. He has Autism Spectrum Disorder. No, it’s not diminished capacity but impulse control isn’t as easy for him. Yes I agree she shouldn’t police him. But we should also have some compassion and understanding what he does and why other than demanding he just behaves like everyone else. It’s unrealistuc. But I agree it’s not her job