Hello BdJmDs: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to PsychCentral! I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

I'm sorry you are having to endure this wrenching experience. I'm certainly no expert with regard to this type of situation. But from my perspective there is, unfortunately, not much you can do other than to do what is necessary to take care of yourself. If your son & his wife are choosing to cut you off, there's no way to make them change their minds, unless you can figure out what caused them to do this to begin with & then find a way to change that. Here is a link to a website that offers some help with regard to these kinds of unfortunate situations. Perhaps it can be of some benefit:

Family Cut-Offs - tools you can use when a family member cuts you out - Courtenay Therapist - Comox Valley - Esther Kane - Registered Clinical Counsellor

May I suggest you introduce yourself over on PC's New Member Introductions forum? Here's a link:

https://forums.psychcentral.com/new-...introductions/

There's a lot of support that can be available here on PC. The more you post, & reply to other members' posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are the chat rooms where you'll be able to interact with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) So please keep posting!