T,
a little wants to tell you about what happened at xmas. She is desperately upset and afraid. I understand the need to let her talk. It has to happen sometime. But is that just an avoidance of the thing that needs to be done in the next few weeks? Is it an exaggerated attachment cry to stave off the overwhelming feelings of that?
Or, is it truly awful and real and present and needs to be addressed? Will you be compelled to report it? I can't tell if it is a serious thing (I don't think so) or a non-thing. How do I know??? And how can I figure it out if the consequences of disclosing could potentially be devastating in themselves?
Easy? Don't say anything??