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Originally Posted by Aviza
I live with her for now, he wants me to move in with him and get away from her negativity. I'm called dumb lazy blind by mom. He'll be visiting she says he eats too much, and she will change the tv on him. Done it twice despite him saying he's watching that. She's just rude and controlling. I want out honestly but
Too soon people say. Far from family, daughter, and friends. Far from doctors. Mom's house is prettier, more comfortable, and cleaner.
He's a farmer, volunteer fire fighter. Housing is cheaper down there, people are friendlier. He would get me a job where he works in manufacturing, I've always worked in offices.
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Hi Aviza, It is never a good thing to constantly be exposed to negativity or someone that is puts you down. You say people say it is to soon, butyou do not say how long you have known your farmer/fire fighter. If family, daughter and friends are an issue maybe you could look for a room mate to get a place closer to them and continue working in an office! I did not read anything about your feelings for this man so I am thinking maybe it is not a really in love situation. So dont move in with this man just because you want out of your moms. I think finding another living situaiton may be somehting to think about.