I agree. It's time to stop trying to please everyone else and time to start pleasing yourself. My mother tried to please everyone else her whole life and it made her a sorry miserable mess. However, when she started to please herself, do things for herself, make herself happy, she has been the happiest I've ever seen her. Like a huge weight was lifted off her shoulders.

Stop trying to live in the 1800's like Divine said. This is 2017. The age of female empowerment. Get your *** outta the kitchen and into the office of your dreams.