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Old Dec 28, 2017, 07:51 AM
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Originally Posted by bpforever1 View Post
I took the initiative to take my online profile down and told my online man. Then, he said he would take his down too and did. I did not tell him to take it down. He volunteered to do so. He did this about two weeks after we started talking. He also said that he was not interested in meeting other women except me. I don't know if this is true because he met me now. We still are talking online. He had to leave to take care of his dad who is in the hospital. I believe if your man still has his online profile up, then he could be still looking. I had another man who I met who never took his profile down. He was a player and never wanted a relationship. He just played me like a fool and still contacts me for sex. I ignore him now. He is married I realized. But, my point is that if your lover is not interested in taking down his profile, then don't expect much from him.
TY for your story and for your thoughts!

Maybe I will do the same! I really like how you approached this. I don't want to ASK him to take his profile down. I want him to want to take it down, on his own.

I don't think my guy is a player. I haven't checked his online profile to see if he's been active, but I am 99.99% certain that he is not seeing anyone else. As far as I can tell, he is exercising a healthy amount of caution and wariness, without being overly cautious or unavailable to me. He says he is open to a relationship and to falling in love, that he wants to explore things with me, and that he's even open to marriage again (though is in no hurry to marry right now).