My closest gf just suggested I let it come from him to take his profile off of the dating site. I haven't even checked to see if he is still active and refuse to. I don't want him seeing me check up on him, because he can see that I've viewed his profile. She says that will allow no pressure on my end or influence from me to make things more committed or more serious. I just don't know. I really don't want to push things with him or make a mistake too soon.