He says it's cheaper to get a car payment and gas than to live in my area. But I found a reasonable place, he hasn't seen yet. He says he'll move up here, but his actions want me to move down there. It's 2 hours away, 3 hours from my daughter.

I work part-time and am on disability. It was difficult for me to find a descent job that will work with my disability. My mom says I shouldn't count on this job because it's a small office, he's old and likely will die soon. She just lost her 2nd husband.

Basically my mom is a condescending negative person. She's mean, only nice in public and sometimes not even there. But she thinks my boyfriend is a descent guy, not the brightest but descent.