I live with her for now, he wants me to move in with him and get away from her negativity. I'm called dumb lazy blind by mom. He'll be visiting she says he eats too much, and she will change the tv on him. Done it twice despite him saying he's watching that. She's just rude and controlling. I want out honestly but

Too soon people say. Far from family, daughter, and friends. Far from doctors. Mom's house is prettier, more comfortable, and cleaner.

He's a farmer, volunteer fire fighter. Housing is cheaper down there, people are friendlier. He would get me a job where he works in manufacturing, I've always worked in offices.