Ok. I did it! I posted on my other forum about my new relationship. My ex can see this. I have been holding off with the thought that I may hear from my ex first. So I did the preemptive strike and posted about my new man. I feel soooo much better!! I WANT him to know I am moving on and am happy in a new relationship.

And PLEASE, whatever you say, please don't chastise me for this or reprimand me. I needed to do this for myself and for my self esteem. The bastard cheated on me.