I am happy to report that I feel really good about how I have handled things with my ex since our breakup.

I blocked him right away, I did not feed into the drama given his last nasty and mean emails to me, I simply just blocked him instead, I did not chase him after we broke up and maintained a NO CONTACT rule for myself, then I started dating pretty quickly and found a GREAT guy pretty fast, and now I've posted about my new relationship on that other forum where my ex is, showing how happy and pleased I am. I think I've gotten my revenge now. Perhaps now I can be at peace. At least I hope so.... it's a little too soon to say yet. But I finally feel some relief after two full months of this need for revenge. I feel like I've done what I can to stand up for my self-respect. and to preserve it. So I feel good!