ditto ditto ditto

I doubt that you are the worst girlfriend ever. It is easy to be too clingy. Society tells us that we are incomplete without a bf or gf, so it is very challenging to form a self-identity that doesn't revolve around the other person.

I think that a T would be a good place to talk about it -- or perhaps a women's support group. Sometimes these exist at churches or community centers for very nominal fees.

And like the others, I agree that self-reflection is indeed change, and a first step to becoming the person you want to be.

Keep us posted.