Sky, I am not sure how to find a new perspective, to try to think better of the people who have hurt me? My faith tells me to try to wish well even for those who oppress me, to think kind thoughts about those who have hurt me. To ask the universe for peace and understanding. It is a bit difficult right now. Too close. I am starting easy saying I wish them no harm. I want them to have peace in their hearts. I don't understand what you are saying and need clarification I guess. I know I need to get to a place of personal power. "I choose to live well despite what you have done" kinda thing. It will come.