We both struggled and we both hurt, ourselves and each other. One thing stands out, though. SHE is the one that put out the biggest effort to overcome our differences! When we both felt like giving up, it was always HER that opened up communications again. I've gotta give it to her! She sure must love my son to put herself through all that! That girl is just like her MIL; TENACIOUS! Gotta love her!