Oh what great ideas everyone! Thanks, and keep them coming if'n you think of any more things.

So, yes on the teddy - that makes me feel much more comfortable. Hes kind of my special friend too lol but when one of you said he supports my tummy you hit the nail on the head - he totally does and i can wrap myself around him completely. Hes also totally washable so its ok if he gets dirty. hes well loved lol.

Had to make an emergency trip to the local labour room today as i hadnt felt any kicks in two days - luckily, everything is fine, the baby just moved positions and is turned away from the surface of my belly so I am not feeling it as strongly, but he is still kicking. Im still glad I went as it is better to be safe than sorry.