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Old Dec 30, 2017, 12:51 PM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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You already know that changing yourself, your clothes, etc., will not change him. I doubt that changing your job will help either.

He needs to commit to change, get help from a therapist, and actually change himself, for a long period of time, before I would be comfortable entrusting myself or my kids to his constant presence. How long are you willing to wait?