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Dec 30, 2017, 01:38 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
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I can understand the desire to know for sure, but as others have said, he's your son. You have raised him. Do you really want that to drive a wedge between you and your son?
I wouldn't blame you for having a DNA test, but please have a doctor do it, not a drug store DNA test. Also, really carefully contemplate what this will do to your relationship with your son and if you are willing to allow her infidelity to do that to you and him.
I know that not knowing can be unbearable, but you have raised him. He is your son, regardless of blood.
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Meds I've tried: Prozac, Zoloft, Celexa, Effexor, Remeron, Elavil, Wellbutrin, Risperidone, Abilify, Prazosin, Paxil, Trazadone, Tramadol, Topomax, Xanax, Propranolol, Valium, Visteril, Vraylar, Selinor, Clonopin, Ambien
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