Just reading this thread for the first time and it's 10 days since you last posted so I'm wondering if there is any update? And here are my thoughts: I think that mutual masturbation is one of the hottest things ever! I also think that most guys would love to see a woman touch themselves. Can you talk to him about this? If not, maybe you could type up something and give it to him? Good luck, I hope that it all works out!