My brother who has not worked outside my father's business wants to come live with me- oh no!! I said I would help though. I am trying to be nice and hopefully he will find some work and move out. He is my brother but he has not been working for the past five years except for helping with our father's business. He is not a good person and selfish. However, he is my brother. I wish I could turn him down but he is family. He looks down on me because of my illness. But, this time I will take my medication faithfully and not argue with him. I've changed but wonder if he has. I like living alone but at times am lonely. So, if he could find work and make it on his own, I'd be happy for him. He is older than I am. I feel bad that he is not doing well. I don't think it is entirely his fault but due to my parents' abuse and lack of emotional support, he is a broken person. We don't have contact with other family members outside our family. We only have each other. So, I will do my best to endure his presence for awhile. May be he might do well with encouragement. I don't know. We shall see. He has some OCD and ADHD issues. But, he does not take medication for either. I might have to look after him for awhile. If he is too weird, no one will hire him. If this is the case, I will tell him to go home. I am not going to get mad at him but will try to tell him the truth and hopefully he will survive on his own two feet.
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