Thankyou so much for your replies. I will talk to him about it at my next session, i've had about 10 so far and yes I think I have gone into it all much too quickly. The lids on every box i've locked away seems to have opened themselves and so i'm telling him things that i'm not really ready to reveal just yet, the trust isn't there. I knew this would be difficult, I just had no idea exactly how difficult.

Reading what you have all put has been very helpful, a big thankyou from the bottom of my heart for taking the time to reply to me.

Thankyou