No, I know me calling her a b**tch didn't help.

She has actually had long term relationships from the same site, 4 years and 6 years respectively, so she is not a novice to relationships, nor to ethos of the site. So she isn't some serial fantasist, a female Walter Mitty character who is catfishing people left and right; she has met other people from the site, (male and female) at events, organised group meetings etc, though has stepped back from it all. MY point being is, she is not some ethereal wraith that emerged from the ether of the internet and disappeared again. She was..."real."

And I get that she is unstable, I wanted to help her as a friend, and that was spurned. Im not angry at being denied the possible promise of sex *waves hand dismissively* it was the fact that we were friends, she needed help,and she reached out. Then she decided to be super selfish and just consider only herself with no thought to how she might be impacting on other people.

Shrugs, not my problem anymore. She wants to cut her leg open, I won't be there next time with my safety net. She's weak. She'll implode, and she'll have no one left to be there for her. It is a hell of her own making.