T,

The thing that really has me annoyed about the current status of our relationship is this.. When we started talking about me ending therapy, you thought I should not stop coming altogether but make it a gradual stop. Which, I know is a normal thing that people terminating therapy due. You have said more than once that you are afraid that I will feel abandoned by you if I just stop coming. But the ironic thing right now.. is, I feel abandoned by you already. The last couple of sessions have been horrible, you have been bad at returning emails, and I just feel like you aren't there anymore. AND- really feel like last appointment when we finally decided to start making my appointments once a month, that you were the one that finally made that choice and not me. and that really sucks too. So, turns out I didn't need to quit therapy to feel abandoned by you.. I just needed to continue, and sure enough it would happen.