you ain't no stinker! Sorry your having a rough time. We are all different and I know that I tried all the natural remedies in the world for my depression last spring and it was good OLD prozac that helped. Also taking vits as well. My son made me cook him a meal tonight so that was good. We all ate together. About the seven year old bedwetter. I borrowed an alarm from friends for one of mine that snapped onto their panties and ANY dampness made the alarm go off and the child wake. It worked within a few days. I then loaned it to another friend whose 12 year old with autism had bedwetting and he was great after 10 days. I could find out what it was/is if you like, my friends would still know. Lunches huh? I have resorted to buying small yogurts, baby carrots, applesauce in those horrible little plastic things, string cheese and other easy stuff because I have lazy kids and that is the only way they bring semi-nutritious food. They also put penut butter in a little container and bring rice cakes. Fruit is an easy grab. The other thing is, and I hope I am not overwhelming you cause sometimes I just want to vent and not have someone make suggestions. But anyway, I keep baby wipes in about every room in the house and everyone uses them. Perhaps your son can wash himself up in his room in the morning quickly. I do remember that smell. Good luck. You are a good parent Wendy, I know it.