I'm sorry things are difficult right now and people are having trouble understanding. I think you are brave to be open here about your parents coming from another country. Mine do too, and I gave up trying to make people understand the double cultural expectations/dynamics a long time ago. You seem like you have a clear understanding of things though. I'm sorry I don't have much advice, I am not too good at relationships. I hope things get better soon. I'm sure it will be okay, whether or not the divorce happens.