I wish I had some good advice for you. As a Adult with ADD all I want to do is feel "normal" and wish I knew how, so I can understand what she is feeling. As a parent myself, hearing that out of my child's lips would be heartbreaking.

I would start by telling her that her Dr. has put her on that medication for a reason. It has nothing to do about her being bad or not "normal" it has to do with a medical condition she has. Then, I would make a appointment with her Dr and discuss it with the Dr and your daughter together. Tell your daughter you want to make the best "Medical Choices" for her.

Good luck to both you and your daughter!

Kathy